6-12-2011 Journal Entry
My dreams were again unsettling, though this time they seem to be more along the line of trying to make me stumble.
Chaplain Tarrab gave an active and energetic sermon on hungering for Jesus in our life in this environment, more than we want things that will harm us. I found it very good and feel that he is doing a great job as a prison Chaplain, taking the time to understand the feelings and issues of inmates.
I finished “Pure Before Thee” and found it an excellent book and I intend to read it again before Dad visits next month.
I added this quote to my “pocket pad” ( I am not sure if I’ve mentioned this before. I have a homemade notebook I carry around with me. it contains some blank pages on which I write journal notes, some lined pages on which I write more long term notes, a calendar, the picture of my family…and on the inside cover I have written quotes that jump out at me so I can read them frequently, which I try to do).
– “To receive God’s forgiveness you must first hold no grudge or hate for anyone else: (Pray for those who despise or seek to do you harm)”.
– “If you want God to answer your prayers, make sure your motives are Godly (Do you ask to be released because you are lonely or do you seek Gods will only for your life?)”
– “Be joyful always: Pray continually. Give thanks in all circumstances for this is Gods will for you (1 Thess 5:16-18)”
– “It is not the nature of love to force a relationship, but to open a path.”
– “Submit therefore to God. Resist the Devil and he will flee from you. Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. (James 4:7-8)”
– “For as he thinks in his heart, so is he (Proverbs 23:7)”
– “I am the righteousness of God in Christ. I have been set apart and made holy in the Lamb. There is a call on my life and God is going to use me.”
– “To learn and not to do is not to learn. To know and not to do is not to know”
– “Sow a thought, reap an action. Sow an action, reap a habit. Sow a habit, reap a character. Sow a character, reap a destiny”
6-13-11 Journal Entry
I woke up late this morning as Chaplain would not be in so, no work. I read a great deal from “Mere Christianity”. Chappy came in at 3:00 and called us to work then.
I worked on study for 1st Corinthians…already finding much nuttiness in William MacDonald’s ideas. He suggests that Paul’s comment that he “[Gives] thanks to God that [he] baptized none of [them]…” is proof that baptism is not required for salvation as, if it were, he would be thanking God that he (Paul) had not saved anyone…Wow! What a leap of [ill] logic! And that is just 1 of many outlandish leaps.
I read an Ensign April 2011 talk: “Holy Temple-A Beacon to the World” and as I do whenever I think a lot about the temple, my urge/desire to go back is so strong that I often have to fight back tears…I so long to restore my temple blessings, to repair my family sealing, to try to bring back to the church all of them….Yes, even Grace. Which leads me to wonder, (and I am sure this is not the first, nor the last time I’ve wondered, if I re-marry in the temple and then Grace returns to the Church, are we still sealed?…which in a spiritual sense means are we still married? If that is the case, then if she remarries,would that not constitute spiritual adultery? And if, on the other hand, she severed our sealing, would that mean I lose my kids?
I also read the talk: “Eternal Blessings of Marriage” which really put into perspective just how much I’ve fouled up everyone’s lives. (VERY sad face)
My workout group is getting larger. There are now 6 of us that regularly work out. All of us are sex offenders (that is, first time offenders). Of course, mine is still the longest sentence, but on my emotional roller-coaster I am feeling good that God has a plan for me and that this long sentence is meant for good. Perhaps it is to ensure my growth. Maybe it’s actually to facilitate needed growth in someone who was otherwise being enabled by me. Maybe my time here will allow the conditions for Sunday, Monday or even Grace to see or learn something and then, when that lesson is learned, it will be them who come to my aid?
LDS Callout was positive. All three of us were there. We have started a habit of singing songs we do not know (thanks to our wonderful CD’s) and so, we sang “Lead Kindly Light” which I really enjoyed. I don’t recall which other unknown hymn we sang though.
6-14-11 Journal Entry
I didn’t make it in to work till after lunch. I was awake but the chaplains were running around too much to call us in. Dranab is waxing my floor so I have no work to do. So I read more of “Mere Christianity” and then several talks from the Conference Ensign…They really seem to speak to me…I wish I could sit down and read them with someone I love so that we can have frank conversations about them.
In “The Miracle of the Atonement” Pg. 108…I am surprised at the similarity with his brother and myself…and though it is clear he didn’t sink to my depths, his return to good standing gives me much strength in God’s forgiveness for even the worst of us.
At non-denominational callout, Hercome brought the wrong power point for his presentation; however, he did have the correct print-out and images on the CD. So in the 15 minutes or so of time I had to prepare, I rebuilt his presentation for him. It was pretty rewarding to see the surprise on his face when I told him he would have his slide show after all. I am told that after the meeting he was very complimentary in his praise to any and all he talked to.
I worked some on my 7 Habits homework. The vocabulary is very time consuming. Prima stopped to chat with me about my orientation meeting on Thursday for the JC’s. He asked if I had a sex case and informed me that as such, I can’t work the visitation room (this I already knew). He also told me that, as a result of Chaplain Barrett’s glowing recommendation—as well as my apparent good standing with other inmates, they have voted to wave or subsidize (or whatever) my annual $30 dues…cool!
6-15-2011 Journal Entry
Chaplain is not in today so I have no work today (at least not until tonight). As such, I didn’t take my shower until noon dayroom. On a wild hare, I shaved my face, beard and mustache. Hmmm, not sure if I like it.
Canteen today and I bought something unusual. I spent $3 on a bag of frosted mini (shredded) wheat as a snack food. I have a small 8oz cup that I plan to limit myself to one filled an evening. I don’t know how healthy they are for me, but I suspect they are a far cry better (and more expensive) than roman noodles. If it turns out to last a week or more as I hope, I might make it a continued thing. Though I have very little money to spend, my only other expenses are hygiene, stamps and coffee (yes, I still drink coffee…it calms me). Mom is saving money for me, and that is so nice of her, but I know that that will have its uses later on (like if my TV dies or they allow Kindles or Laptops or something) so I don’t want to touch that money.
I read the Ensign (June ’11) article (pg. 20) that really touched me to the core “The Prison and the Dandelion”…in it the author talks about a very difficult mission that was negatively affecting him until a dandelion growing from a crack in the sidewalk showed him how to “Bloom Where Your Planted”. Good advice that…Huh?
I finished my Seven Habits homework since it’s due today. It appears I’m still needing to overcome my procrastination issues.
Class today, as normal, digressed rather quickly as the inmate criminal mindset of “dependency” attempted to defend itself by trying to micro-define what exactly dependency is. Given that our instructor makes no attempt to control things, we didn’t progress far past that.
I came back from chow to find that my mail was sitting (for anyone to take) on the “Bung Hole” (what we call the lockable trap door in our cell doors that is to feed us in a lock-down situation. This is normally locked, but they leave them open right now due to the heat. I suppose it allows more air flow through the building. Anyway, leaving peoples mail on this ledge is extremely dangerous as anyone can pick it up and no one would even know they are missing their mail! Imagine if there was something sensitive in the mail. That could be deadly. Anyway, I was so put off by this that I walked over to the guard (whom I’ve never seen before) and told him, in a parental way how potentially dangerous it was and he shouldn’t do it again. He sort of blinked a few times and said: “Yes, um, sorry…: *Chuckle*
I got a letter from Mom & Dad! Yay! That’s two letters in a row from Dad. I am so pleased. I need to hurry up and reply to them. Huh? This time dad used a very hard to read cursive font…then made it so small! Boy did I have to work to read that. But I suppose it’s no harder than reading my printing when I get sloppy.
6-16-2011 Journal Entry
I woke up this morning with a profound sadness for Grace. It wasn’t my normal longing sadness…it was the understanding that with me as her demon, she can never realize her own errors…because no matter what bad happens to her, she will see it being my fault…and all good will be in spite of me. And, no one who is sane will allow themselves to get close enough to help her (even if she would allow them to try) and anyone who can stand to be near her must needs be equally as damaged as she is. I think I was the one that was meant to help her, and boy did I fail her! But there is something to be said for my deep seated need to love that woman. I am not dependent on her…it was I who was moving forward in ‘2000. I simply love her. I think God meant it that way… I wonder if I will feel the need to love her and help her when I get out. Note to self: be sure to ask yourself when you get out what you think on this topic.
In Character First, someone mentioned the war and 91, and the Muslims in the class got all huffy. Now, mind you, no one said anything about Muslims…or Islam…but one of them still accused us of talking bad on Islam because that’s what we meant by “them”. Bleh! And again, Islam wins because normal people (even normal inmates) can’t muster the same level of potential blind, irrational, hate filled violence.
John (Other—my cellie) got his level today. In celebration he bought both of us stew off the commissary…nice of him. Though now I know I don’t want to buy that stew myself. Very salty…it reminded me of the stew we got from Deseret Industries way back in the 1980’s…not very palatable, but will most likely last forever.
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